Things that remind you of importance!

So i guess that you will find me talking about family, friends and the important things to me in my life! My father taught and teaches me this all the time! That we have things backwards in life about death. We celebrate when someone dies at the funeral when we should celebrate with them in their life while they are here with us. We should take the time to visit, call, text, mail, lunch, dinner, coffee, icee, snack, smile, hangout, share, help and i can go on forever, but take the time to do these things while people are here, fuck they cant hear it through the dirt and grass. Imagine if it happened to you where you walk out of the house and dont come back! Do the people important to you know how you feel, honestly know how you feel???? Did you tell them "I LOVE YOU!" Did you tell them that "THEY ARE YOUR HERO?" Did you tell them "WITHOUT THEM YOU WOULD BE NOTHING?" Did you say "THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU?" I think that we can take the time to do it more, spend more time celebrating life and not the other of that! 

So I was watching a tv show that brought this all about and just wanted to talk about it again, I am going to take the time to do the things Ive said up above.  You know when you grow up and think that your parents arent good parents and as you grow finally figure out that your parents are awesome! that all the things they have done was to protect you and your safety? my parents are the 2 greatest human beings in the world! They truely taught me the meaning of family and what it means.  the bond we should have, the lines you dont cross and that family truely means family! I have had some bad things that have happened to me by family that used to always preach family this and family that, but in the end didnt know the first thing about family! i would never treat my worst enemy the way that family preachers treated me and thats how i know my parents raised me right! 

my grandpa and grandma gave me the world but taught me how to earn it! i could go on forever about them but they are the foundation of everything good in my heart!

my brother and sister are like my kids, i love them so much! they taught me how to share! im a selfish fuck and they changed me. i was lucky enough help raise them!  both athletic and book smart!! fuck i wish i was as book smart as them, just not my cup of tea! they both have the 2 biggest hearts and I am so happy they are great adults! man i feel old when i look at them now. god i love them so much!

my wife is the best thing to happen to my life. she taught me unconditional love! a different unconditional love, not the kind from a dog or your parents but true unconditional love! she changed me and made me realize alot of things that i would have never saw before. she defines what my parent s have taught me about family! i think thats why my mom loves my wife the way she does. my mom is not easy to get along with but some how my wife broke down her walls and now they are closer than ever! its really a amazing thing to have them that close.

my baby boy is amazing! damn i know what a hard time i gave my  parents now! shit the damn kid is just crazy and full of energy! his smile can sure the worst day! hearing him call your name just melts your heart. when he does something that you do it just makes you so proud to be a parent! he was the single most amazing thing to have! because of him there are no material things that can make me happy the way he does! when he says " I love you daddy" shit is like cloud nine man!

i also have the most incredible mother in law! along with the rest of my family she truely makes is possible for me to chase my dreams! i hope one day i can be a good son in law cause i know i am always not at home or dont clean the way i should! thanks gam!

in the end family family family!! the bond that can never be broken! family makes everything possible for me! i can t say enough! SO, "THANK YOU", "I LOVE YOU", "YOU ARE MY HEROES","WITHOUT YOU I AM NOTHING!!!" "YOU ARE ALL MY EVERYTHING" I wil work hard to make you all proud, i promise!! love you all good night!