business!

BUSINESS!

 •May 22, 2009 • No Comments (Edit)

So I guess Ive been in this industry for some time and just wanted to share some of my ideas on this industry and the people in it or not in it!

I have a lot of friends in business that people think are assholes and tight or just playing old dicks, but the people that have these comments are not in business nor have they ever thought of owning one! when you are in a business, a part of a business, own your own business or just financially bound to a business its a totally different world or level you are in! Every decision you  make can make or break you! every penny you lose can close your doors forever! I dont think my friends are dicks or assholes man because everything we buy for the business costs money! fuck, everyone comes in and they want a beer, a plate or just playing old free shit! remember that everything cost money!! So for all the people that get mad or think your friend aint your friend cause they dont catch all you r drinks at the bar or your plate lunch everyday or free legal service, that shit cost money, took years of school, wasnt free for them, SO pump your breaks and step the fuck off and spend some money and help  your friend instead of bringing them down. REMEMBER it only takes one in the crew to make it to the top and he or she will take you to the top! everyone needs support, if you cant do it help someone that can do it and then enjoy the fruits of success together! sometimes thats whats wrong with people now days, don’t hate be happy for people! push them succeed and pass on a good word for them to help them get farther in life! Give the good word for people cause its deserved. im gonna continue on this blog but leave you with this ” a beer at cost is $1 dollar, if you order 10 beers at your homeys place tonight or next week and your bill is $10 dollars don’t get all pissed off and shit and go off on some sort of childish tantrum that your friend didn’t hook it up for you, remember that beer cost a $1 and your boy hooked it up cause in the store on sale that shit cost more than that! thank them, help them succeed and dont hate cause that business in some way or another your friend opened does help you in some way even if you cant immediately see it, it helps the economy and that helps you!!

Things that remind you of importance!

So i guess that you will find me talking about family, friends and the important things to me in my life! My father taught and teaches me this all the time! That we have things backwards in life about death. We celebrate when someone dies at the funeral when we should celebrate with them in their life while they are here with us. We should take the time to visit, call, text, mail, lunch, dinner, coffee, icee, snack, smile, hangout, share, help and i can go on forever, but take the time to do these things while people are here, fuck they cant hear it through the dirt and grass. Imagine if it happened to you where you walk out of the house and dont come back! Do the people important to you know how you feel, honestly know how you feel???? Did you tell them "I LOVE YOU!" Did you tell them that "THEY ARE YOUR HERO?" Did you tell them "WITHOUT THEM YOU WOULD BE NOTHING?" Did you say "THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU?" I think that we can take the time to do it more, spend more time celebrating life and not the other of that! 

So I was watching a tv show that brought this all about and just wanted to talk about it again, I am going to take the time to do the things Ive said up above.  You know when you grow up and think that your parents arent good parents and as you grow finally figure out that your parents are awesome! that all the things they have done was to protect you and your safety? my parents are the 2 greatest human beings in the world! They truely taught me the meaning of family and what it means.  the bond we should have, the lines you dont cross and that family truely means family! I have had some bad things that have happened to me by family that used to always preach family this and family that, but in the end didnt know the first thing about family! i would never treat my worst enemy the way that family preachers treated me and thats how i know my parents raised me right! 

my grandpa and grandma gave me the world but taught me how to earn it! i could go on forever about them but they are the foundation of everything good in my heart!

my brother and sister are like my kids, i love them so much! they taught me how to share! im a selfish fuck and they changed me. i was lucky enough help raise them!  both athletic and book smart!! fuck i wish i was as book smart as them, just not my cup of tea! they both have the 2 biggest hearts and I am so happy they are great adults! man i feel old when i look at them now. god i love them so much!

my wife is the best thing to happen to my life. she taught me unconditional love! a different unconditional love, not the kind from a dog or your parents but true unconditional love! she changed me and made me realize alot of things that i would have never saw before. she defines what my parent s have taught me about family! i think thats why my mom loves my wife the way she does. my mom is not easy to get along with but some how my wife broke down her walls and now they are closer than ever! its really a amazing thing to have them that close.

my baby boy is amazing! damn i know what a hard time i gave my  parents now! shit the damn kid is just crazy and full of energy! his smile can sure the worst day! hearing him call your name just melts your heart. when he does something that you do it just makes you so proud to be a parent! he was the single most amazing thing to have! because of him there are no material things that can make me happy the way he does! when he says " I love you daddy" shit is like cloud nine man!

i also have the most incredible mother in law! along with the rest of my family she truely makes is possible for me to chase my dreams! i hope one day i can be a good son in law cause i know i am always not at home or dont clean the way i should! thanks gam!

in the end family family family!! the bond that can never be broken! family makes everything possible for me! i can t say enough! SO, "THANK YOU", "I LOVE YOU", "YOU ARE MY HEROES","WITHOUT YOU I AM NOTHING!!!" "YOU ARE ALL MY EVERYTHING" I wil work hard to make you all proud, i promise!! love you all good night!

check it out!

We are trying to do something new! There are 2 great parties on thursdays going on at restaurant row!! we are doing dime at bonsai with no cover and there is the monkey bar at oceans! remember when the row was banging with 3 different clubs and the row bar??? i do! shit was crazy and we hope to bring that back to the row! please come by and check it out cause you can go back and forth! see you all there... and dime is free, it dont cost a penny!

life, economy, people

thinking thinking and thinking! 

so our economy is pretty fucked right now and when times were good i went out and bought me a nice car that i could afford!! as things started to slow and money started to get tight i no longer want the car and want to get rid of the damn thing. its funny how in our country we cant get help for our own citizens! these big companies get bail outs but cant afford to help the people that got suckered into these " great deals" and the guys/ companies that did the suckering get help? where the fuck is the rightness to that? i know people have their own ideas, thoughts and opinions on this but this is just mine! i could go on forever but i rather not cause ill just get mad! as people we should just be smarter than that no matter how good the deal!! a good deal isn't always "GOOD"! i blame myself and i think we should all take some sort of responsibility for what is happening in our economy! first things first we need to start here with ourselves instead of blaming people for the wrongs that are happening now, remember we put these people in office, offices, white house, management positions and any other high ranking positions so it is our fault to begin with. we need to take our time and research so that we can make better choices so we don't have to be in these situations again! 

people: i know that all people have some good in them but shit there are to many people out there that the bad totally outweighs the good! you know you can make all the money in the world, you cant have all the girls, riches and so on!! i mean we all like to think we can but it just impossible!! that's why its called a "monopoly" so that cant happen cause then the government wouldn't have all the power and we put people in that power and that's why we need to protect ourselves even from our own people! individuals need to work hard, do good things to others, acquire things in the right way, amass riches the right way by working hard, help others reach a higher place, persevere, be humble and i can go on forever but if i have to tell people that then they are never gonna make it! BE DRIVEN! 

i just had some things on my mind in no direct order or anything else just rambling about stuff on here!

recap of this past PL(pleasure lounge) with dj toma and some random ish!!

So this past saturday at the PL, DJ Toma killed it! i havent heard a set like that in forever! shit was guuuud!! Had some really good looking people that rolled through! thanks for coming and making our shit pop! we will be bringing in special dj's and doing special events, just be on the look out! so after PL we went to level 4 and vern and kitsu hooked it up as usual! thanks guys for the bottle and the class as always, you know we will be rolling in on sats! this weekend will be summer and hopefully we keep the momentum rolling and you all can come and check out the party the venue is sick if you havent came through yet! 

Things I have done, created, ran or made!

Filet mignon beef sashimi with soy vinaigrette
HAMACHI KAMA
Bar area of therapy sports grill
Back area on the water and pool tables!

Will post more pics and info later on this. Need to go and find all the pics that we used to have! Oh, we were serving a kalua pig and cabbage roll with lomi lomi salmon side salad with pineapple haupia vinaigrette! slowly i will add to this! i really have to go back and archive my shit! ill put up some pics of the pleasure lounge as well!! check out raising the steaks as well..

the best things in my life!

i have come to see alot of things in my short time on this earth and one of those things is the love from my wife, son and my family! I would not be able to do the things I do without them! I am one lucky person to know i have found a love most people dream of and am lucky to feel it everyday! i have been blessed in so many ways that i am very lucky! I have a lot of friends also that make my life awesome, i hope that one day we can realize our dream of sitting on a beach enjoying drinks because we built an empire, fortune and became our own moguls! It doesnt have to be on a huge level either just something that we can be comfortable at! I know that with my family and friends our dreams will come true, Ill die trying to make that dream come true! pce

link to a write up of the pleasure lounge every saturday!

http://honoluluweekly.com/calendar/nightshift/2009/05/little-treasure/

pleasure lounge the hidden jewel!!

LIFE!!

life is a strange thing or should i say people are strange. why are we creatures of habbits?? work hard, play hard,enjoy life and be happy for what you have and not what you could have!! you want something work hard to get it don't try to take it from someone who does work hard! theres the right way to do things, a process! things are not given they are earned! we all start from the bottom and have to work really hard to get to the top or maybe even the middle, but it all starts at the bottom!! i can look myself in the mirror and be happy every day at what i see. ive worked hard, do the right things, treat people the way i want to be treated, share, always lend a hand and so on! i really for once in my life am surrounded by good people and intend to keep it that way.. one more thing to take care of and ill be completely rid of people in my life!! thank you to all the good people in my life, you make me who i am!! i promise not to let you down!